Fuel is damn expensive these days and keeping our tanks full is costly, but it's necessary to get around.
Consider for a moment, another type of fuel tank and that's your mind.
Our minds are beautiful, malleable, intricate, and powerful tools we can use to reach enormous heights.
The challenge is, we often shrink back from trying to chase our goals and dreams because we don't control our thinking.
Here's where the power lies! Consider your mind to have two separate fuel tanks side by side to form one large tank that keeps us motoring.
One side, will feed us negative thoughts. We will see the bad in all things. The weather is too cold, the relationship is meh, the business opportunities mediocre. And when we add fuel to this tank it works very efficiently to keep pumping us with evidence to support all the negativity we see. A full negativity tank will tell us every reason why we are selfish for wanting more, don't have the time or we're unworthy of investing in our personal...
I’ll be honest with y’all! I’ve been struggling a lot lately. There have been about half a dozen life changes and crises happening at the same time. While most have been positive, the negative ones have beaten me down.
This may surprise you given that I’m a high-performance coach. It has been small compromises in my training program that have led me here. I know this to be true, because I have navigated crises in the past while maintaining my perspective, a positive outlook, and healthy routine.
So, what went wrong this time around?
I allowed myself to take on a victim mentality and I stopped doing the basics that drive high performance.
Now don’t get me wrong, if you saw the laundry list of challenges perhaps you would say that my victim mentality was warranted. It was not and is not and today is a new day.
Today, I choose to manage my energy, to look for the good and the lessons. Today, I choose to get back to the basics, the habits that...
The good book says that “Iron Sharpens Iron”. In this case, the message is touching on the importance of selecting associations and friendships wisely. Hang around people who are sharpening their proverbial axe and they will naturally influence you to do the same.
Think of your iron as your mind and your habits. We have associations that sharpen our iron but we also have control over keeping ourselves sharp with self-discipline.
Some of the ways, in which, we keep sharp are…
Some of the ways we dull our mind or self discipline are…
C | Choose Conscious Consumption |
O | Outlets |
N | News |
S | Social Circles |
U | Ultimate Goals |
M | Media Influences |
P | Podcasts |
T | Time |
I | Inner Dialogue |
O | Omit Self-Deprecation |
N | Nutrition |
Over the last couple of months, I’ve become increasingly aware of my consumption. When I am more disciplined about my physical, emotional, and spiritual consumption I’m peaceful and productive. When I lose sight of this awareness, I can easily spiral into negative thinking and experience anxiety.
Outlets are an important part of healthy and balance living. We have some outlets like exercise which support our growth in a positive way. Working out can also provide a way for us to feel a small sense of control in an unstable world. Other outlets include binge watching Netflix, alcohol, or drugs. Our outlets are ways for us to feel a little calmer, a little happier and perhaps numb our anxiousness. What...
I just finished an amazing one-on-one with a firecracker on my team! She was asking me if it was reasonable to transition to full-time sales within the next twelve months.
To back things up, it’s important to paint a picture of where this team member started. This individual has been in an administrative support role for the past six years. She is by definition an introvert and does not like being the centre of attention. She’s the type of person who appreciates being celebrated privately vs. in front of people. She’s also been super-committed to our personal development program and is unrecognizable to the girl who walked through our doors in 2015! In fact, if you had asked her back then if she would ever do sales she would have laughed followed by a “Hell NO never!”
About six months ago, she rolled up her sleeves and started dabbling in sales. It wasn’t out of a new desire but out of her commitment to help the team because sales were...
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