Rephrase it to Reclaim it!

When we think of big goals, we’re often excited when we first write them down. Then reality sets in and we start looking at what could go wrong, the skills we don’t have yet or the barriers that will stand in our way.

Often, the obstacles are self-imposed, created by our minds and given strength through our language. When we ask ourselves dis-empowering questions like, “How the heck am I going to reach this goal?”, we’re not setting ourselves up for success.

When we are careful with our language and how we construct questions, miracles happen!

Instead, ask yourself…

• “What is the best thing that could happen here?”
• “What would it take to reach this goal in half the time?”
• “Who can help me achieve my results even faster?”
• “How would I be thinking differently if the stakes were higher?”

Questions like this challenge the status quo. They make us think in broader and more creative terms, allowing for bigger thinking to take place.

We must quiet our minds and really seek to find the answers.  Start with one empowering question then take time alone to ruminate on it. Write down everything that comes to mind. Don’t judge your mind’s suggestions, just write them down and keep writing even if you think the solutions and ideas are crazy. Just one smart suggestion in that grouping could take you to the next level.

I’m in the middle of reading Lisa Bilyeu’s book “Radical Confidence” this idea struck me hard and I’m embracing it! When she’s facing a challenge or new goal, she’ll ask herself these powerful words…

“No BS, what would it take?”

Answering the question,s doesn’t solve the issue. Answering the questions helps you tackle what’s necessary to reach your goal. Will you need to skill up? Make a new connection? Establish a new training program?

The way the question is asked, implies that you have control and puts you in a position to act towards reaching your potential.

When you find yourself asking questions that don’t create a space for critical thinking, rephrase it to reclaim it.  After all, the dream would never be on your heart if it belonged to someone else!